The Right Wrong Person

" We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong.

Why is this?

Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems - the ones that make you truly who you are - that we're ready to find a lifelong mate.

Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person - someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. "

Let our scars fall in love.

- Galway Kinnell -

Can you define my smile? This very special person can.

Definitely one of the greatest moments that touched me deeply and at the same time cheered me up during the darkest period - last May in UK.

A very wonderful dedication from this very special brother ( from another mother hehe), awesome solid 20 friend.

May, 28th. 2012.

Once again, thank you for everything that you have done for me. All these little things mean a lot to me, it still do. :)


Your Smile

It is okay, if you are crying 
You can cry today but you will smile tomorrow
And your tears will become the flower in my heart

It is okay, if you are hurting
That is the way God has created us
We can feel everything
How blessed we are.

Sun is rising and the rain is stopping
Because your smile 
Brought happiness to the world

Now I am singing
Believing that this song can comfort your heart
Because my heart is aching to see your smile again

Let me be honest
My heart is dirty
But only if you allow
It can soak all of your tears

Time is coming
I cannot keep it inside
Because your smile        brings happiness to me

I THANK MY LORD FOR EVERYTHING AND WHAT HE'S BROUGHT ME THROUGH BUT MOST OF ALL WHAT I WANT TO THANK HIM FOR IS THE FRIEND I FOUND IN YOU.

no doubt we'll meet again, so this is goodbye for now ... Take Care :) 

p/s : this song never fails to put a smile on me.

您的当年，我的小时候。

小時候　我們的城市像郊外　我們的腳步很輕快
那時天空很藍　心很小路很寬
長大後　我們的存在像塵埃　我們的距離被拉開
有時相處很難 　想很多    話很短
我要爬上你的肩膀　我要眺望你的遠窗
我忘了問什麼樣的倔強　讓我們不說一句真心話
我要長成你的翅膀　我要拂去你的滄桑
我忘了說心裡面的願望　始終是要你的肯定啊
從你溫柔眼眶　綻放
這時候　我們的心變得柔軟　放下了父女的身段
知道時間太晚　不要躲不要散
我要爬上你的肩膀　我要眺望你的遠窗
我忘了問什麼樣的倔強　讓我們不說一句真心話
我要長成你的翅膀　我要拂去你的滄桑
我忘了說心裡面的願望　始終是要你的肯定啊
從你溫柔眼眶　綻放
我要爬上你的肩膀　我要眺望你的遠窗
我忘了問什麼樣的倔強　讓我們不說一句真心的話
我要長成你的翅膀　我要拂去你的滄桑
我忘了說當我仔細回想　腦海最珍貴的一幅畫
是你載著我　叮嚀我　要我抓牢你身旁
安心在你背後　飛翔
記憶中　我們的一切　隨著你老去的臉　成為永遠


爸爸，我爱你。